The Joy of Blogging

It’s hard to believe that my first full year of retirement is almost at an end and what a fulfilling year it’s been!  Back in July, on a whim, I started a personal blog with no prior experience and no real theme in mind.  Being an avid gardener for many years and one who loves to talk about all things plant-related, I figured that was a good place to start.  Besides, writing seemed like a great way to fill my newly freed-up days.  What I came to realize is that blogging freed me up as well, in ways I never anticipated.  The experience has been inspiring, motivating and energizing; it has truly changed my life in a positive way!

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Over the past six months of blogging, I’ve made many new friends; some are professionals, some are amateurs like myself, but all of them are enthusiastic about writing and eager to share their life experiences.  And I’ve discovered there’s a whole lot of stuff out there to write about – from accomplishing the most ordinary of everyday tasks all the way to seeking higher consciousness!

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I’ve found that people who write also read, and they read a lot!  A lifelong lover of books myself, I now love reading blogs as well.  By reading different blogs, we open ourselves up to new worlds but also educate ourselves by taking the time to learn about and appreciate those topics that excite others to write.  There are so many people blogging regularly now and so many different things to read about that you never get bored.  Generally quick reads, blogs are endlessly entertaining, and there’s always something new on the horizon.

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Instructional blogs are a great way to learn something new as they generally don’t require a lot of time to read yet pack in a lot of information.  When photos are also used, it’s like a personal mini-class and just as enjoyable as watching a video.  I do a lot of this type of blogging when I talk about gardening and plants.  Although far from a professional, I have many years of experience and love to share what I’ve learned with others through the blogging medium.  I also regularly seek out the wisdom and wit of my favorite bloggers.

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Many blogs are stories of real-life experiences that come from the heart and, as such, they can touch us in a very personal way.  They’re a communion between the writer and the reader.  With this type of writing, a catharsis takes place that can bare your soul and leave you feeling more than just a little vulnerable.  As part of the blogging community, we respond with encouraging and understanding comments; we hand out gold stars and cheer each other on in hopes that by doing so the good stuff will just keep coming – and it does!

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And so, as 2018 comes to a close, I’d like to thank my faithful readers and fellow bloggers for enriching my days with inspiration and joy!  Thank You and a Happy New Year to All!

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For more on blogging, visit my previous posts:

Redefining Ourselves in Retirement

Into the Blogosphere with Lyme

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The Many Faces of Fall

I adore fall – the brilliant colors, golden days and cool nights; the bounty of farmstand apples, pears, and pumpkins; the delectable aromas of a country fair!  The sweet scent of woodsmoke becomes familiar again as people in the neighborhood light the first fires of the season.  Fall has its own smell, too, rich and earthy, as wet fallen leaves pile up and plants slowly melt back into the soil from where they emerged just a few short months ago.  Hickory nuts abound, closely followed by acorns and pinecones.  Soon, pine needles will blanket the edges of the road and feel soft under our feet as we walk.  There is so much about the season that delights our senses!

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For many fall is a season of beginnings – the kids go back to school, young people move to new apartments, others join classes or committees.  The cooler days seem to create a sense of urgency to get involved and get things settled.  The holiday season begins as we celebrate Thanksgiving and look forward to Christmas, making those last few weeks the busiest of the year.  But fall is also a time of sadness as the year turns toward winter and our lives move indoors.  It’s a time for reflection over the past year’s accomplishments as well as a time to look ahead.

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Turning the corner from summer to fall can be a difficult transition.  Longer nights close in and the refreshing coolness of September days turns seriously cold by November.  In spring, as the days lengthen and temperatures warm, we feel exhilarated as life re-emerges from the cold depths of winter.  We look forward to the sun-filled days ahead; it’s a change we’ve longed for.  But fall signals the loss of light and warmth, as the days turn darker and colder, moving in the opposite direction toward the end of the year.  I’m grateful that it’s a slow and gradual process because, for those of us who love the warmth of the sun, it can be downright depressing.

Many of us acutely miss the loss of light and become sluggish with the cloudy and wet days of fall.  We may feel like eating more and/or sleeping more; we may lack motivation.  Those mild sunny days, taken for granted in summer, now become rare and precious!  Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is something many people experience this time of year, an unpleasant side effect of shorter days and less sunlight.  We have no choice but to endure the discomfort and commiserate with friends and family over our common predicament!

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More than any other season, fall is a time of preparation.  Just like the squirrels stowing away nuts for the months ahead, we humans tend to our own rituals.  Many of us put garden produce by for the winter months, our homegrown tomatoes and green beans even more welcome come January.  We begin to cook comfort foods of soups and stews which warm our homes as well as our bodies.  We bake apple crisps and pumpkin pies, savoring the warming spices of cinnamon, ginger, and nutmeg.  We stock up on wood for the fireplace or stove, fill our oil tanks and “hunker down” for the colder months ahead.

Fall is the season when we begin to turn inward, mourning the end of another year and yet taking comfort in the knowledge that we’re all part of the infinite circle of life.

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Redefining Ourselves in Retirement

Retirement came to me before I even had time to consider what that would really mean.  My boss suddenly needed heart surgery and at age 75 decided that maybe it was finally time that he retire.  With his surgery looming, we helped our patients find a new physician and took all the necessary steps to close the office.   There was a lot of extra work and effort involved in this and by the time we closed the door for the last time, I was definitely ready for a rest, but was I ready for retirement?

After 32 years working in the same busy medical office, my boss and co-workers had become like family to me.  We had survived many of life’s ups and downs together; we were close.  It was hard to imagine life without my constant work companions, my longtime friends.  And without my job, how would I fill my days?

Along with the two other secretaries in the office, I decided to collect unemployment.  At least that would help pay the bills while I decided which direction to go in.  After a few short weeks the unemployment office expected me to attend a “training seminar” so that I could again find meaningful employment.  I considered that for one brief moment but at age 64 taking on another job wasn’t something I really wanted to do.  Instead, I looked into Social Security, signed up and took an early retirement.

Some people say they love retirement, that their lives are so busy they wonder how they ever found time to work!  Others go through what I call “work withdrawal” where they find themselves adrift without the anchor of their job security and stability.  I found myself wedged somewhere between the two.  Although I loved putting away the alarm clock, I still craved purpose in my life.

Since I took retirement in January, it was hard to spend much time outdoors and I easily succumbed to cabin fever.  It would be months before I could enjoy gardening and I could read for only so many hours a day.  To occupy my time I spent the winter months helping my husband with his metal casting business and waited patiently for spring.

Once the warm weather arrived I felt energized again.  I was getting out for daily walks and spending time working in the garden.  I had settled into my new lifestyle feeling rested and invigorated.  I was ready for something new but wasn’t sure what that was.

Over the previous year I had taken up writing, something I very much enjoyed but had little time for when working.  Now I found myself devoting more time to writing and the possibility of pursuing this as a vocation inspired me to look further.  It didn’t take me long to look into blogging as a means of getting my writing seen and as a platform to launch a new career.   Today, I enjoy adding to my blog on a regular basis and it has truly given me a new lease on life and a new purpose.

I would love to hear other retirement stories.  What do you do to fill your days?  Are you enjoying life more or less?  How are you managing financially?  Please feel free to comment and I promise to respond in kind.  Thank you for visiting my new website, Nancy with The Laughing Face.

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